July 5, 2008
No, matter what your old self and others may say you must stay positive, if you are to truly become who you want to become, and then keep your eyes on the prize “The Perfect You.” They won’t know how you can be changing and some may even get jealous, as they won’t be able to understand how you can be changing for the better, when really that’s exactly what they want to do. Everyone wants to be happy, healthy, have enough money and they are all within your grasp you can achieve almost anything, stay positive.
(YOU CAN DO IT YOU ARE A WINNER AND DESERVERING OF EVERYONES PRASIE)
People will start coming to you and asking you how you are doing this amazing feat. Your parents may not like the way you are changing, that’s OK; your friends may not like the way you are changing that’s OK. If that’s what you want to do, then stay positive and don’t let anyone bring you down, you are a winner and you can make it! You deserve to be happy and have things in life that you want!
(YOU DO!)
Now that you are moving forward more and more people will see the results and they will become more and more obvious as time goes on, as you start becoming the perfect person you want, your new life is just around the corner keep your eyes on the prize you can do it, you will make it with the will to win! You have to read motivational books and listen to motivational tapes,
The best tape series is Zig Ziglers How to Stay Motivated Series. a series with six tapes in each, this Along with the books, this will change the picture and move you to a different level if you continue this on a daily bias you will be surprised at how fast you can move in the right direction and see results for yourself.
You must also remove the negative people from your life and choose to hang around the positive people and associate with people whom more are in tune with the new you. You will be surprised at how as you are changing that you will start to look for these types of people and they will start to show up, slowly you faze out all the negative people and the ones that don’t quite fit the style of person you are becoming.
If you keep on doing what you’ve Been Doing, Then Your Going to Keep Getting What You Been Getting! Zig Ziglar
Well, if you don’t like what you been getting you must change the picture, The choice is up to you, only you hold the keys to your future, you can take the ball and run with it, or you can punt the ball and keep things the way they are.
The choice is up to you, the perfect you are inside you, only you can unlock the beast that wants to come out and play. When someone is negative or something is negative, ask yourself does this fit into the me that I want to be? If not, get away from the cancer, as it Will surly bring you down too. Stay positive, stay upbeat, the results are already in, if you want to change you can!
IF YOU PUT THE GOOD STUFF IN YOU ARE GOING TO GET THE GOOD STUFF OUT! IF YOU PUT THE BAD STUFF IN YOU ARE GOING TO GET THE BAD STUFF OUT!
ZIG ZIGLAR
Well if you know something is bad then move and move swiftly as far away from it as you can, not only are they going down, so too will you soon follow in there footsteps. If this is what you are after then I say follow them into that cold dark place we call negativity, the place that can never lead to something good, a very lonely place indeed.
Because all the people who are succeeding in there life will surly be going in the opposite direction. The choice is yours do with your life what you will, after all it’s your life, but if you want to go in the direction that the winners go, make the choice to stay positive and choose things that are positive and people that are positive and you are well on your way to becoming the “Perfect You.”
That I know you can become, this at times is easy and at other times will require dedication and hard work. Don’t wonder why others have this or that, find out how they got there and follow their lead, you may need to alter what I did or someone else did a bit, but you have the blue prints for success at your finger tips, don’t be afraid to use them.
You can become the person you want! You can do it! See it in yourself first and then others will start to see it also, the positive you that you now have become and then you can show others how to build the perfect person that you know they are.
IF YOU HELP ENOUGH OTHER PEOPLE GET WHAT THEY WANT, YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU WANT!
Zig Ziglar
No matter what your lot in life is or what you are after you can benefit by gaining insight and wisdom in the fact that a positive attitude is a very vital to your success in life and if you want to make it anywhere of any importance in your life you will need to learn the basics in having a positive attitude, because this will unlock the doors to your future and I am sure you won’t be disappointed!
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July 3, 2008
Link up the two of people’s predominating pursuits and what you’ve got is something that’s commonly titled a Web sportsbook. What could be more resourceful… If you envisage a crowd of devotees cheering to support a home sports club, and continuously wagers will be announced besides the hubbub. Hoping to get a share of the delights, on-lookers will frequently seek to estimate who is most likely to win the running struggle. Put together, this all comes to be a matey little struggle named Web sportsbook.
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No doubt it might well sound a craving, however, sportsbook wagering is actually only an entertainment and to team up with one’s fellow sports buddies. Here, you can wager a any puny amount of bucks and all the same enjoy yourself. Also, read on for several recommendations to get you going sportsbook wagering.
To place a bet, you should go to a Web sportsbook, i.e. a setup which accepts Web sportsbook. In America, you can find no less than four states where everyone can go for sportsbook wagering in a legit manner, but if you don’t care for legality, you can try it practically anywhere as long as you find a bookie AND happen to be of age. Many of the sporting contests you can bet on are pro together with college football plus basketball, professional baseball, professional hockey, together with bets on both dog and horse racing. Clients will be able to bet on the overall tally of a fight or game, when exactly a given contestant will be vanquished, and even if a given coin toss in a fight or game will land heads or tails.
The betting outfit are dependant on statistical mathematics to help you out come to a conclusion which sports club you may suppose is most likely to win. First off, there’s the chances, that is to say leverage pertaining to the inferior side anticipated to be beaten by a defined number points. Evidently, this constitutes the bookie outfit’s formalized manner of offering disinterested bets for a sports book. For example, a punter may choose to risk money on a contestant anticipated to be beaten and and all the same profit from the wager as long as the side is actually beaten by a defined number of points.
Why not just do some test runs, and have a lot of fun at one fell swoop… Only take care that you won’t get too enthused and deplete your total social security checks on a whimsy. For otherwise you’re bound to catch yourself grieving for it for the rest of your life.
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June 19, 2008
Have you ever felt so stressed you could jump out of your skin? Ever been so annoyed with someone (such as a boss, co-worker, or partner) that you wanted to ring their neck?
If so, all you need to do is get lost. By get lost I don’t mean run away from reality and live in denial. I mean get lost in doing something you love.
You might say, “But I’m so busy and so stressed that I don’t have time to get lost!” Based on my experience (and I’m getting some revised lessons in this lately), you can’t afford not to.
Let me give you a current example from my life. A portion of my time is still spent working in a “day job” while I build my business. And, lately the stressful and generally low morale atmosphere at this day job has been maddening. Some days I find that I come home needing a bit of self-coaching and an attitude adjustment. While my eagerness to work on my business and with my clients is high and I feel like I want dive right in, I have found that if I simply get lost for about 30 minutes I am so much happier, more relaxed, and wildly more productive.
Now, this approach seems counterintuitive to what people think they “should” do. After all, the “nose to the grindstone” cliché persists for a reason. However, I contend that keeping the “nose to the grindstone” nonstop results in a dull grindstone and no nose. My best guess says that this is not what you really want!
Let me elaborate a little on what I mean by getting lost. I mean choosing an activity that brings you joy, allows you to lose track of time, and makes you feel good about yourself. It is not something you feel you “should” do, it is something that you wish you could do for yourself “if you only had the time”.
For example, it can be a hobby like playing a musical instrument, reading a book, or simply going for a walk. It is whatever works for you given your mood in that moment on that given day. If you worry about losing track of time and not getting back to the rest of the day’s schedule, invest in the cheap but ever effective business tool - the egg timer. For about a dollar, you can buy the most effective time management and productivity tool there is. Simply set it for 30 minutes and forget about it. It gives you the freedom to be totally present to what you’re doing without having to worry about time.
The top 7 benefits of getting lost on a daily basis are:
- Allows the stress you are feeling to melt off of you
- Leaves you with an enhanced state of calm
- Increases your ability to focus
- Creates more joy for you every day and a chance to “just play”
- Gives YOU the care and attention you deserve
- Enhances your creativity and problem-solving
- Enables you to have a fresh perspective
So, what are you waiting for? Get lost!
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Copyright 2006, Paula Gregorowicz
Paula Gregorowicz is the owner of The Paula G Company which specializes in helping stressed out and overwhelmed women business owners achieve more success without all the burnout and compromise. If you are a lesbian business owner and professional, visit the new http://www.Coaching4Lesbians.com community for free resources. If you are finding yourself stressed out or overwhelmed , check out the burnout busting eCourse “Nip Burnout in the Bud” available at http://www.avoidburnoutnow.com and the “Beyond Burnout” newsletter at http://www.thepaulagcompany.com
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April 6, 2008
If you have days when you don’t feel like doing anything what
can you do?
Maybe it is time to discover a new way to overcome
procrastination and get motivated.
When a deadline looms you need a quick and easy way to start
making some progress and beat procrastination. This is very
possible for you with the following three minor shifts in how
you think about work. Read on to learn how to get motivated. You
can finally overcome procrastination with these motivation tips.
1. Define Specifically What You Must Do
Ignore all other tasks for the moment. This step can be a
revelation - clarity helps you to concentrate on what matters
most of all.
It is a lot easier to get started when you know what needs to be
done rather than feeling like you have to do everything at the
same time.
Write down the goal as specifically as you can so that you have
a clear and attainable target to aim for. Otherwise you will
never beat procrastination.
2. Allow Yourself To Make Mistakes
If you demand perfection of yourself you will quite naturally
put off getting started until the perfect moment arrives. Of
course this will never happen so you will never commence the
project.
It is more important to begin.
Do your best and make corrections later on. By adopting this
outlook you will get something done and you can enlist the help
of others to advise you and give feedback. Then improve your
work after you have finished your first effort. This will help
you to get motivated.
3. Compete Against Yourself
When you compete against others the possibility of failure can
stop you from even trying. It is far better to compete against
your previous best performance. Compare the quality of your work
with your usual standards and aim to match or beat that
standard. This approach puts you back in control and allows you
to succeed on your own terms.
Obviously your personal standards must meet or exceed those of
the people who are relying on your work.
To sum up. You can beat procrastination with a few minor shifts
in how you think about success and achievement. For the sake of
learning a new way of thinking about your work you can enjoy
greater success and leave the anxiety of procrastination behind
forever. The time to overcome procrastination, get motivated and
beat procrastination forever has arrived!
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March 22, 2008
TRAINING Your Mind to Help You
================================================== Our friend,
singer and songwriter Chuck Pyle, likes to say, “The mind is
like a bad neighborhood-you should never go there by yourself.”
If you’re mind hasn’t been trained to help you, via methods like
meditation, shamanism or NLP, it might really be a bad
neighborhood. Our minds constantly absorb thoughts, behaviors,
and responses from our environment. These various thought
patterns and responses may or may not be in alignment with our
goals. So, unless we actively train our minds to be responsive
to our needs, we may be in for a wild chariot ride (and 6 out of
control horses)!
>From a shamanic point of view, we say that each person is a
spirit with a mind and body. In other words, we are spirit and
mind and body are tools that we, spirit, can use. However, just
because we have mind as a tool doesn’t mean that mind, in its
current form, is a good tool for us. The untrained mind is a lot
like an untrained animal-be prepared for the unexpected!
Have you ever sworn to yourself (say on New Year’s Day?) that
you’re never going to fall for the wrong kind of mate again? Or
you’re going to lose 10 pounds this year? Or you’re going to .
the list is endless. Then what happens? We forget what we’ve
promised ourselves, or we find other priorities that are more
important. That forgetfulness is a sign that mind isn’t trained
to help us with our aims. Mind is doing its own thing.
So what can we do to train mind? Segment intending, one of our
favorite exercises from Abraham-Hicks, is a simple way to train
your mind to help you while also accomplishing a lot each day.
Here’s how you do it:
1) Pick the length of time for your “segment.” It can be any
length of time, but no more than an hour. Thirty minutes or an
hour works well. Decide exactly what time the segment will start
and end.
2) Decide on your aim for that segment. It could be a list of
tasks, a state of being, or both. For instance, you might decide
that you will strive to remain light hearted while you return
phone calls for 30 minutes.
3) When the segment start time arrives, start your segment with
no second thoughts. Put your attention solely on the tasks for
that segment and nothing else.
4) If you get interrupted during your segment, you need to
decide whether the interruption is important enough for you to
stop your segment (for instance, if your boss stops by your
office for a chat). If the interruption is not important enough,
keep going on your segment. If the interruption is important,
make a conscious decision to stop your current segment and start
a new one (one centered around the interruption).
Practice doing these segments throughout the day. Each segment
is a training period for your mind, and will teach your mind to
assist you in whatever you are doing. Segment intending works
even better with a buddy, who can help you stay on track and
stay focused. Whether you segment intend by yourself or with a
friend, you’ll find your mind becoming much more responsive to
your needs as a spirit. Enjoy!
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